"The idea that my “encouragement” is going to affect their behavior is terribly ignorant and self-centered." This is why it would be nice if we could all be co

"The idea that my “encouragement” is going to affect their behavior is terribly ignorant and self-centered." This is why it would be nice if we could all be consistent in our encouragement one way or the other. If we all did the same thing we might actually make a difference.