Father of two daughters of 0.5 and 2.5 years here. It's true that your life will be disrupted, don't try to work around that. Personally I am happy it happened

Father of two daughters of 0.5 and 2.5 years here. It's true that your life will be disrupted, don't try to work around that. Personally I am happy it happened to my life, even though it's hard and at times it has been very hard. Lots of good advice in the thread, so allow me to write the only thing I haven't seen yet: remember that your wife/girlfriend (assuming you are the male of a MF couple) is having it harder than you. You don't have to breastfeed, your genitals or belly are not wounded and scarred, you don't have hormones ups and downs. Please have patience with her.