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A parent working at NASA is a great advantage for entering tech not because they could open a door for you, but because they would help you creating a receptive
by giomasce 4y ago
A parent working at NASA is a great advantage for entering tech not because they could open a door for you, but because they would help you creating a receptive mindset much before you'd actually start reading books. Or maybe it wasn't the case for you, but it definitely was for me. My father is a programmer, my mother a maths teacher. My mother's parents both were maths teacher, at different school levels. You can guess it was easy for me to have mathematical and computer concepts presented and explained every time I fancied them. I could develop and nurture my love for STEM much before it was a matter of actually reading books on my own.
It's not mechanical, of course; my sister never particularly enjoyed maths and went on to become a nurse. That's fine, of course; but clearly the road would have been harder for me if I wasn't born in an environment which valued maths and science as naturally interesting.
My mother's siblings have all finished the university, and so have my cousins on my mother's side (or are still going to the university). Among my father's siblings, he's the only one who finished the university, and coincidentally of my cousins on my father's side the only who finished university are my siblings and I. Of course I don't pretend this is statistically significant, but I think the real privilege with culture is not the money or somebody who makes it easier for you to get a job, but rather being born in an environment that stimulates your desire for culture.
- randrews 4y agoOther than general supportiveness of my interests, neither of my parents were in a position to do that. There are a lot of things where, if I had had someone knowledgeable sit down with me for an afternoon, I'd have been years ahead of where I'm at. I could have learned Pascal or C about five years earlier than I did, if someone had helped me set up Turbo Pascal and write a hello-world in it. Could have been breadboarding things earlier if I had known some basics like "which holes are connected in a breadboard." I really did just figure out most things on my own, through trial and error or old books. In an environment where most people either didn't care what I did or actively discouraged that kind of experimentation. Which is why I don't have a lot of patience for that argument up there: no, it's not privilege, anyone can do it, just most people don't.