I think you should try to frame it differently: - without notions of pressure from either social or personal ambition. * if you want to give something a go, d

I think you should try to frame it differently: - without notions of pressure from either social or personal ambition. * if you want to give something a go, do it. Just don't hang it up on what others might think, or on some grandiose image. - would a choice still be a success if it didn't match your ideal: * if you get a less than ideal job in the US but you appreciate the adventure and opportunity? * how about to a different country? - can you appreciate the value of change itself? People grow and have rich lives through experiences. - Choices are not right or wrong, its exploration following this semi meandering path with no clear destination. You can backtrack, change, explore, revisit etc. - The children one you will have to figure out with your partner (And on your own) along the way.