The level of competition is such that you have to complete across multiple lifetimes. You happen to be in a large bucket with a lot of competition you have to b

The level of competition is such that you have to complete across multiple lifetimes. You happen to be in a large bucket with a lot of competition you have to be top 1% in that case to even go up to the next level, which includes successfully having children and putting them on a good path to be top 1% as well. Take risks and succeed. The game is incredibly competitive and challenging and just understanding that is difficult.