Thank you for stating this. I was just about to write what you said. The fact that what he/she associates with "black" culture is so negative - and doesn't see

Thank you for stating this. I was just about to write what you said. The fact that what he/she associates with "black" culture is so negative - and doesn't seem to stop to critically analyse that - but accepts it as "normal". At the same time, he/she doesn't understand why people from that community might want to create something for themselves - where (for once), they are the gate keepers of their own content (aka "writing their own narratives").