Yes our lives are limited so we can not do it all. And comming to peace with that is a process that is different for everyone. Every choice rules out others, he

Yes our lives are limited so we can not do it all. And comming to peace with that is a process that is different for everyone. Every choice rules out others, hence the paradox of it. Your own struggle with learning new things does have some openings to look at it a bit lighter. Most things are already useful, fun, interesting with less than 10k hours. Way less. You don't need to be an expert to enrich your life and that of others with a new skill! In addition, learning related things goes much quicker (ie I enjoy doing CAD recently using Fusion 360 and I find that many aspects of it fit my programmer mind very well, same for expanding foreigbln languages, different instruments, etc).