I did both, and in my situation it seems that travel is a bigger issue. Even with crazy startup hours, we could usually get at least one shared meal a day and

I did both, and in my situation it seems that travel is a bigger issue. Even with crazy startup hours, we could usually get at least one shared meal a day and you know... see each other. We could also workout together. Maybe get a hug while I'm talking to a customer on one hand and coding in the other. It adds up. When you are in another state - its really away.