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What does this even mean? Considering the 18+ year impact that a child would have on one's livelihood/career/business/passions is thinking long term.
by haploid 15y ago
What does this even mean? Considering the 18+ year impact that a child would have on one's livelihood/career/business/passions is thinking long term.
- geoffw8 15y agoLets say in 10 years he flips a company. The kid has college money, parents who are financially secure - and if the OP wanted, he could forget the office and spend what would be work-hours with his kid.
- haploid 15y agoI think you may have missed the point of my question. The OP is wondering how he can maintain his productivity with a little sprog monopolizing his time/attention( he was more diplomatic than that, but that's the crux of the issue ). I then asked why he didn't consider this possible impact on his livelihood( the productivity aspect )before deciding to have a kid. So, to use your response as a template, I would rewrite with the following: Let's say in 10 years he fails to get his company off the ground because 4+ hours per day that would have been previously available to him to work on his project were not, due to the presence of a child. The kid has to take out student loans, parents who have nothing to show for 10 years of stress - and if the OP had to, he could take a second job and spend what would be kid-hours with his work.