I see this behaviour every day. There is even a Neapolitan expression for this: "chiagni e fotti" [1], which could be translated as "cry and screw (others)". [

I see this behaviour every day. There is even a Neapolitan expression for this: "chiagni e fotti" [1], which could be translated as "cry and screw (others)". [1] https://it.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chiagni_e_fotti https://it.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chiagni_e_fotti