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because they don't have solutions or useful advise. They don't think anything is wrong but the person who's presenting the actual problem. It's sometimes useful
by qqj 6y ago
because they don't have solutions or useful advise. They don't think anything is wrong but the person who's presenting the actual problem. It's sometimes useful to consider the possibility you're wrong, but what OP describes is clearly not unique to his team or company. Many of us are in the same boat. So at least in this particular case, the "toughlover" is indeed, a "douchebag".
- JackFr 6y agoBecause the tough love solution is always "Take responsibility for improving your own situation." The complainer says "It's not my fault!" The tough-lover responds, "Yes, it's not your fault. But it's still your problem."