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Yup. Living with parents. Cancelled my lease (saving $3500/mo). My manager agreed to let me stay at home at least for the rest of 2020. Honestly, it's been nice

by a-wu 6y ago

Yup. Living with parents. Cancelled my lease (saving $3500/mo). My manager agreed to let me stay at home at least for the rest of 2020. Honestly, it's been nice. My mom cooks for me like I'm a teenager again, and I only recently graduated and I went to school pretty close to home so I have close HS friends or college friends nearby to physically distanced socialize. I was planning on moving back here in the future but if a lot of companies start permanent WFH I might accelerate my timeline.

throw51319 6y ago
Nice. Same for me on the mom cooking lol. It really is next level. Did you move out of NYC?
- a-wu 6y ago
  I moved out of the Bay Area. Honestly the mom’s cooking thing makes everything worth it. The fact that I don’t have to think about grocery shopping and what I’m going to eat is amazing. I just sit down at the table and eat whatever she cooks. Of course I try to help with the cooking when I can (and I’m learning how to cook her dishes!) but she’s also happy to do it since it means I’m home. I read a comment about how some people don’t have good relationships with their parents and I feel blessed and privileged that I do.
  - sujinge9 6y ago
    Pretty interesting that the biggest benefit of moving out the Bay Area is not having to worry about food. Many SV tech companies provide lunch and dinner.
  - timelincoln 6y ago
    amen, likewise
- qorrect 6y ago
  My moms food is atrocious this is doing nothing for me.
- singhrac 6y ago
  I did the same thing. Food is amazing. I was eating my own food (not terrible!) and takeout for months in NYC before coming back home a few weeks ago. Also, I have 3x as much living space, tons of open green space to run in, and people to talk to (all while saving > $2k/month). Many have suffered tremendously during this pandemic so I'm very blessed to be so lucky.
  - throw51319 6y ago
    Yeah seriously. What do you think are the downsides for moving home? Do you have a gf?
121789 6y ago
same situation but I'm older. moved out of SF and I'm planning on going back near the end of the year. dating is awful but the quality of the rest of my life has been a significant increase from sitting in a 1 bedroom apartment alone for 3+ months with limited social options
309d9095 6y ago
Wow, $3500/month on lease? In my country, folks "earn" one eighth of that on average.

by a-wu 6y ago

throw51319 6y ago

Nice. Same for me on the mom cooking lol. It really is next level. Did you move out of NYC?

a-wu 6y ago
I moved out of the Bay Area. Honestly the mom’s cooking thing makes everything worth it. The fact that I don’t have to think about grocery shopping and what I’m going to eat is amazing. I just sit down at the table and eat whatever she cooks. Of course I try to help with the cooking when I can (and I’m learning how to cook her dishes!) but she’s also happy to do it since it means I’m home. I read a comment about how some people don’t have good relationships with their parents and I feel blessed and privileged that I do.
- sujinge9 6y ago
  Pretty interesting that the biggest benefit of moving out the Bay Area is not having to worry about food. Many SV tech companies provide lunch and dinner.
- timelincoln 6y ago
  amen, likewise
qorrect 6y ago
My moms food is atrocious this is doing nothing for me.
singhrac 6y ago
I did the same thing. Food is amazing. I was eating my own food (not terrible!) and takeout for months in NYC before coming back home a few weeks ago. Also, I have 3x as much living space, tons of open green space to run in, and people to talk to (all while saving > $2k/month). Many have suffered tremendously during this pandemic so I'm very blessed to be so lucky.
- throw51319 6y ago
  Yeah seriously. What do you think are the downsides for moving home? Do you have a gf?

121789 6y ago

same situation but I'm older. moved out of SF and I'm planning on going back near the end of the year. dating is awful but the quality of the rest of my life has been a significant increase from sitting in a 1 bedroom apartment alone for 3+ months with limited social options

309d9095 6y ago

Wow, $3500/month on lease? In my country, folks "earn" one eighth of that on average.