I don't have a spouse. Just wanted to say I have a hard time meeting men AND making friends in Seattle, even as a female software engineer working in video game

I don't have a spouse. Just wanted to say I have a hard time meeting men AND making friends in Seattle, even as a female software engineer working in video games. I've used Tinder in the past and have been able to meet lots of people, but it doesn't seem to be as effective now. Not sure if the users of the app have changed or it's just Seattle culture. It's rough.