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> most young women I dare you to go to an average bar or club and try to talk about code with most young women. It's not happening. Most people don't code, and
by magashna 7y ago
> most young women
I dare you to go to an average bar or club and try to talk about code with most young women. It's not happening. Most people don't code, and most coders are male.
- crustacean 7y agoBut why talk shop on a date at all though? - A shared niche interest is not sufficient basis for a good relationship. - I’m a woman in tech and I don’t necessarily wanna talk code on a first or second date, I’ve got professional development figured out on my own time.
- magashna 7y agoThe presumption was that it's sexist to assume you can't talk code with young women. I don't want to talk code with anyone 99% of my off time. But to say the reasoning is sexist is untrue.
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- username90 7y ago> But why talk shop on a date at all though? Because lots of programmers loves to talk about code? > A shared niche interest is not sufficient basis for a good relationship. Then what is a good basis for a relationship? A shared interest in ubiquitous interests like food, blockbusters or travel? I don't think that is much better. > I’m a woman in tech and I don’t necessarily wanna talk code on a first or second date, I’ve got professional development figured out on my own time. Good for you, not everyone feels like that though.
- babadabada 7y ago> I dare you to go to an average bar or club and try to talk about code with most young women. I dare you to go to an average bar or club and try to talk about code to literally any person.
- magashna 7y agoExactly. The point is it's not sexist.
- uwuhn 7y agoEven in certain parts of SF, which I'd argue is the most engineer-dense part of the US, you can go into an average bar or club and discover that most of the men aren't interested in talking about code either.