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I'd rather see this so called "toxic positivity" than people patting each other on the back and reinforcing their depression and mental health issues as though
by RandomInteger4 7y ago
I'd rather see this so called "toxic positivity" than people patting each other on the back and reinforcing their depression and mental health issues as though it were an identity or something to form a community around.
It sounds harsh, but there are so many counter productive behaviors people engage in while meaning well with regard to mental health issues on social media. One I see often is that people are effectively embracing catastrophizing as some sort of rebellious act of defiant need for other people to acknowledge their distorted view of reality.
Don't get me wrong either. I'm not looking at this from an outsider perspective. I've been there. I've been dealing with on and off depression and anxiety for the past several years. I've managed to claw myself out of it, but am able to accept that how I acted while there was not healthy for me. I have to take full responsibility for my behaviors and the bridges I've burnt.
All that being said, this article reads like someone waist deep in the throes of "Acknowledge my depressed reality!"
- byproxy 7y agoI definitely relate to what you're saying, but finding a community of like-minded down-n-out individuals can be somewhat therapeutic in itself. Assuming you're all able to laugh about it, that is. http://www.mytinyphone.com/uploads/users/uzueta/387840.jpg http://www.mytinyphone.com/uploads/users/uzueta/387840.jpg