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The short answer is: It's complicated, but doable. There is a lot of good advice here in this thread. I would begin by forgiving yourself, and by being kind t
by aizatto 8y ago
The short answer is: It's complicated, but doable.
There is a lot of good advice here in this thread.
I would begin by forgiving yourself, and by being kind to yourself.
I burned out almost two and a half years ago for the same reason.
My ambition didn't match my ability and I was beating myself up for it. It was an identity crisis for me. I wasn't able to perform as well as I previously had.
I spent the past few years observing my thoughts, and asking myself questions on why I was having those thoughts, and it helped me.
I funneled the energy into https://www.deepthoughtapp.com/ https://www.deepthoughtapp.com/
I think there are many areas to start, and even writing this list, can seem overwhelming.
- Be kind to yourself
- Forgive yourself
- Be grateful for where you are now
- Have realistic expectations
- Exercise
- Find/create other sources of fulfillment
- Practice mastery of your craft with a smaller project
- Learn how to empower yourself
- Find other activities where you can feel empowered
- Surround yourself with healthy friends
- Understand why you think what you think
- Understand what maintenance is needed to keep your engine going
- Have other activities where you can see progress in
- Define healthy boundaries