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I use the Face app to enhance my face/dating profile pics especially the goatee which changes your skin tone and adds a furrier goatee. It’s not a huge tweak t

I use the Face app to enhance my face/dating profile pics especially the goatee which changes your skin tone and adds a furrier goatee. It’s not a huge tweak to how I look so those who I go on dates or hook up with haven’t said anything and our subsequent dates or hook ups continued. Overall the Internet is and slowly becoming less of a trustworthy source for much of anything. Thus dating apps that force u to take a pic of yourself thru the app no outside pics is probably going to become a thing.

joe_the_user 8y ago
I don't see how an app that showed less attractive people could be more successful. Dating is inherently going to be "buyer beware" from now on, not that it hasn't that way for a long time.
- throwaway_234 8y ago
  Well with all things on the Internet and as time continues to school not only us techies but all INternet users that most of what you see is fake that's going to be a need for veracity. Those who are already good looking to hot might flock to a dating app that ensures the pics they see for prospects are indeed real. Overall a system needs to be created to ensure veracity on the Internet or it's just going to become a joke.. unbelievable!
  - pixl97 8y ago
    That system sounds terrifying itself. Who runs such a system? What is their motive or mandate for doing so? Which governments will directly or indirectly control it? How will it deal with things that are unpopular yet true? How will it be gamed by malicious actors?
    - throwaway_234 8y ago
      just a thought otherwise the Internet looks to becomes a joke and maybe that's not a bad thing!
  - sudouser 8y ago
    > good looking beautifulpeople.com
always_good 8y ago
Not really. You just don't have enough integrity to roll with your actual look. I wouldn't be so quick to blame that on anything but yourself. In fact, it's in your best interest to be as honest as you can upfront so a woman's first impression of you isn't "hmm, he looked better in his photos :/"
- xor1 8y ago
  >You just don't have enough integrity to roll with your actual look. Everyone I know touches up their dating pics somehow. Let's not even get into how your statement relates to makeup, I'm talking about actual modifications to the picture through filters or even straight-up photoshop.
  - always_good 8y ago
    So what? I'm not talking about women and make-up. But I'd say the same about a man wearing foundation to round out his blemishes. The truth is you're really doctoring your images to satisfy your weak ego. And the sooner you acknowledge that, the healthier. Trying to rope in other people with "but others do it" only demonstrates even weaker integrity. Though I guarantee you're overestimating the number of touch ups using something like Face App. Not really the same as some 80s VHS Instagram filter or whatever.
    - xor1 8y ago
      >The truth is you're really doctoring your images to satisfy your weak ego. I don't think this is true if everyone is doing it. It's like an arms race, you have to do it just to reach a baseline, as opposed to doing it to stand out. Something similar that occurs in online dating is that guys add 1-2 inches to their height. The vast majority of men do this. I'm somewhere between 5'10 and 5'11, and most people my height list themselves as 6'+, so I started doing it too, and there's been a noticeable difference in the number of matches I get. If I put my actual height, women will assume I'm under 5'9, because every guy who is 5'8 is listing themselves as 5'10. You can claim that I'm being "insecure", but I've never been dishonest about my actual height in person. I used to just round down and put 5'10 because I really didn't care, and I'd always get remarks about how I was taller than they expected. Funnily enough, lots of people who are the same height as me really do believe they are 6' because this exaggeration has become so common, and the average adult doesn't measure their height properly and just goes off what everyone else says.

joe_the_user 8y ago

I don't see how an app that showed less attractive people could be more successful. Dating is inherently going to be "buyer beware" from now on, not that it hasn't that way for a long time.

throwaway_234 8y ago
Well with all things on the Internet and as time continues to school not only us techies but all INternet users that most of what you see is fake that's going to be a need for veracity. Those who are already good looking to hot might flock to a dating app that ensures the pics they see for prospects are indeed real. Overall a system needs to be created to ensure veracity on the Internet or it's just going to become a joke.. unbelievable!
- pixl97 8y ago
  That system sounds terrifying itself. Who runs such a system? What is their motive or mandate for doing so? Which governments will directly or indirectly control it? How will it deal with things that are unpopular yet true? How will it be gamed by malicious actors?
  - throwaway_234 8y ago
    just a thought otherwise the Internet looks to becomes a joke and maybe that's not a bad thing!
- sudouser 8y ago
  > good looking beautifulpeople.com

always_good 8y ago

Not really. You just don't have enough integrity to roll with your actual look. I wouldn't be so quick to blame that on anything but yourself. In fact, it's in your best interest to be as honest as you can upfront so a woman's first impression of you isn't "hmm, he looked better in his photos :/"

xor1 8y ago
>You just don't have enough integrity to roll with your actual look. Everyone I know touches up their dating pics somehow. Let's not even get into how your statement relates to makeup, I'm talking about actual modifications to the picture through filters or even straight-up photoshop.
- always_good 8y ago
  So what? I'm not talking about women and make-up. But I'd say the same about a man wearing foundation to round out his blemishes. The truth is you're really doctoring your images to satisfy your weak ego. And the sooner you acknowledge that, the healthier. Trying to rope in other people with "but others do it" only demonstrates even weaker integrity. Though I guarantee you're overestimating the number of touch ups using something like Face App. Not really the same as some 80s VHS Instagram filter or whatever.
  - xor1 8y ago
    >The truth is you're really doctoring your images to satisfy your weak ego. I don't think this is true if everyone is doing it. It's like an arms race, you have to do it just to reach a baseline, as opposed to doing it to stand out. Something similar that occurs in online dating is that guys add 1-2 inches to their height. The vast majority of men do this. I'm somewhere between 5'10 and 5'11, and most people my height list themselves as 6'+, so I started doing it too, and there's been a noticeable difference in the number of matches I get. If I put my actual height, women will assume I'm under 5'9, because every guy who is 5'8 is listing themselves as 5'10. You can claim that I'm being "insecure", but I've never been dishonest about my actual height in person. I used to just round down and put 5'10 because I really didn't care, and I'd always get remarks about how I was taller than they expected. Funnily enough, lots of people who are the same height as me really do believe they are 6' because this exaggeration has become so common, and the average adult doesn't measure their height properly and just goes off what everyone else says.