The expression "bake my cake" comes to mind. Somehow one faction has an inalienable right to compel speech from its ideological opponents out of pure spite, be

The expression "bake my cake" comes to mind. Somehow one faction has an inalienable right to compel speech from its ideological opponents out of pure spite, because sacred principles of antidiscrimination or whatever, but when it comes to giving a speech by express invitation, having raised the necessary funds for security etc, we are maximally minimalist about what a government institution has to allow.