I wonder if we're having a Violent Agreement. I'm not saying that you have to consciously play status ("decide to play"). I'm saying that when you interact wi

I wonder if we're having a Violent Agreement. I'm not saying that you have to consciously play status ("decide to play"). I'm saying that when you interact with someone else, you are playing a certain level of status in relation to them, whether you are aware of it or not. Engaging in some phony behavior will, of course, make people perceive you as a phony, with all the loss of respect that that entails. Respect, of course, is a big part of status. When you don't respect someone, you tend to play higher status toward them.